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subject: re: pubes
in reply to elsewhere in message #5969:
Quick answer: Don't care.

Not so quick answer: It is ultimately up to the woman. I have seen/heard of selfish assholes who deem that a 'hairy' woman was gross and would never even date one. I can also believe the paedophilia slant but I am a little resistant to it. Ie, I have know of men to believe the same. I have known several woman who are bare because it is cleaner around that time of the month. I ain't earning my red-wings, so I am not going to find out.

I have gone from full bush to nothing. The only thing that nice is, as you said, not having the stray pube in the mouth.

To be honest, I think the current fad of twiggy impersonators would be more of a sign of paedophilia tendencies then a shaved mound. They look like fourteen year old children, no boobs, no hips, and nothing that attracts my attention.

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subject: re: pubes
in reply to elsewhere in message #5969:

My slant on this is probably a bit bitter, skewed, pissed off, whatever, but!

So I'm kind of a wimp, but I shave bare because I'm too lazy to be careful careful about the hair I'm not shaving off. BUT any guy who requests that I go bare is looking for that 12 year old look, 'cause let's face it, I look like I'm 12 half the time.

I'm also pretty furry as far as chicks go.




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subject: re: pubes
in reply to elsewhere in message #5969:
I shave/trim/wax, but leave a very thin vertical strip--almost a continuation of my scar. I have had guys be turned off by going completely bare, as it does remind them too much of a childlike look.



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subject: re: A somewhat continuation from
in reply to elsewhere in message #5970:
Re: lube for anal - the thicker the consistency, the better. Just an FYI.



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to the_bob in message #5971:
I have known several woman who are bare because it is cleaner around that time of the month.

See, I don't get that. Looking at /my/ personal anatomy, my mons is at least a good two inches or so from where I bleed. For women who use that line, I wanna know WTF they're doing wrong.



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to valkyrie in message #5975:
Lots of headstands?



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to valkyrie in message #5975:
Ditto.

And Bob, on the topic of the "Twiggy" impersonators, I don't see what is so attractive about it either, but mainly because of the boniness. It's not much of a turn-on to be seeing/feeling. What's your thoughts on androgyny, in the terms of outward appearances? Personally, if I weren't so curvy I'd randomly do it, but you play with what you got.


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subject: re: A somewhat continuation from
in reply to valkyrie in message #5974:
:)

I've never had to buy lube before, I always got it through a deal at work. That was the best lube I've found. There's 2 sex stores on the next block, so I'm sure I can find something suitable. May even look at some toys. I my toybox packed up in Ontario as I didn't want to be flying with it.


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subject: re: A somewhat continuation from
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I left my toybox ... damn.


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subject: re: A somewhat continuation from
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Next female roommate I get is not allowed to be a member of any of my fora ;)



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to valkyrie in message #5973:
I'm slightly off topic (since I'm neither attracted to nor possess female anatomy, my comments relate to men), but I'll share my two cents anyway. Yes, shaving completely does make one look prepubescent, which is definitely not a look that turns me on. And to me, at least if it's not done quite right on men, the vertical strip reminds me of a Hitler mustache. I'd much rather nothing be done at all than too much removed.



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subject: re: A somewhat continuation from
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Some things you'd rather not know, or would be better off not knowing? :)


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subject: re: pubes
in reply to schwul in message #5981:
Interesting. As I've said, I've known guys to trim, but not to shave. Quite the picture.

*pictures* Yep, definitely interesting.



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to elsewhere in message #5977:
My thoughts on androgyny? I don't care for it. I don't see the allure of sticking it in something that looks like it could be one or the other. I tend to like quite curvy women. Twiggys honestly disgusts me. Two levels, one they aren't comfortable with themselves, and have issues with their body shape, and their perceived body image. That leads to poor nutrition, as well as poor mental health. Call me traditional, chauvinistic, misogynistic, or what not, but when I am looking for a woman, I am looking for one that will bear healthy children, and will be able to care for and nurture them throughout their lives. My Ex-Wives family was sort of like that, but I got the fatter one. Her mother was a twiggy, by knife and otherwise, she was constantly guiltting her two youngest children to lose weight. It gave both of them a complex.

I look for someone that is comfortable in their body, as well as one with curves. Tits, ass, and hips. What can I say, I like my women to look like women...

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subject: re: pubes
in reply to elsewhere in message #5983:
I felt nekkid when I shaved my groin. A few days later, the ingrown hairs created undesirable red bumps. Itchiness and red bumps can be reduced by using lotion, but that must be applied a couple times a day. My manliness disappears for a while as well. Quite uncomfortable.

For now, I trim a short length in the shape of a trapezoid. Hot as hell in the summer time if left too long.

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subject: re: pubes
in reply to the_bob in message #5984:
they aren't comfortable with themselves

Not necessarily true. There's plenty of women who are naturally on the Twiggy side. Also, no matter their shape, a LOT of women aren't comfortable with their bodies.



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to redrix in message #5985:
Itchiness and red bumps can be reduced by using lotion

Exfolient is better.



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to valkyrie in message #5987:
Bikini Zone works best.



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subject: re: pubes
in reply to valkyrie in message #5986:
That statement suffers from the "Broad Generalization" syndrome, in both senses of the word.

I do, in fact, know someone who has a genetic abnormality such that she needs to consume a 3000-4000 calorie diet to achieve any weight gain at all. She is a size Zero or less, she was perfectly comfortable with her body, though longed for.... larger tracks of land.

I will truck out the over used, yet valid, societal pressures to achieve a unrealistic and unhealthy body shape. Please consider it used.

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subject: re: pubes
in reply to the_bob in message #5989:

I'm one of those people who gets to consume massive amounts of Calories in order to gain any weight.

Which was nice during finals week last fall semester when I consumed somewhere around 72 cans of coke in five days, but that was all I had.


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subject: re: pubes
in reply to valkyrie in message #5986:
I have met very few women who are actually comfortable with their bodies. Which is a shame, really, because there are plenty of women who are beautiful and think they are disgusting. Of course, there are quite a few that are the opposite, so...

I don't really have a preference; that is to say, I dont draw lines at a certain weight, in either direction. But you can kind of tell when you look at someone if they weigh the proper amount. A person shouldnt starve themselves trying to be too skinny for their frame just because some stupid bitch in a magazine gets paid a lot of money to wear a bandana as a dress. Neither should they sit on the couch stuffing McFatPatties into their mouths, because they are a dollar and there's a sex and the city marathon on TBS. I will not be winning any body building contests, and have yet to receive any word from GQ or Mens Fitness about appearing in their magazines, so I try not to judge, but, as someone who recently lost a lot of weight (about 40 pounds), you really should just *know* if you are an unhealthy weight. I just FEEL a whole lot better now, the benefits to my appearance are just a bonus.

Oh, and a note on the grooming issue. As long as its not wildly unkept, I don't particular care how a woman chooses to keep it. I do enjoy completely shaved, and I don't feel it makes me a pedophile. It doesn't make me think "ooo shes young", it makes me think "ooo, she intended to let me see her vagina today" which is kind of a turn on. I like women who like sex and who aren't about sitting around waiting for me to "seduce" them (this isnt to say i dont participate in and enjoy foreplay). But I don't want to feel like im raping someone, just because some stereotype says that men have to be more aggressive and get things going. Unless we're playing that game, which is a different story completely. But I digress...yeah, to me no hair says "I planned this night out so get your ass over here and fuck me". And what's not to like about that?





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subject: i had no idea this place was so hoppin'
hmn, also no idea schwul swung that way, but eh who cares.
i need to trim it. i'm in the camp that thinks less hair just makes oral a little more appealing.
since for some reason i tend to close my eyes for that and kissing, the 12 year old argument doesn't hold water.

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subject: cry for help?
no one REALLY needs to know my current myspace mood is fabulous.
or that i'm planning a wedding.

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subject: cross pollination
on Today at 11:37am, Jester wrote:
If you need me, I'll be over here between and performing .

Spadelibs!



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subject: It must be spring . . .
Arright.

So, there's this guy I met a few years ago, E. We've been flirting back and forth a good year and a half or so; Mr Smith cleared me last spring to do kink with him, but I haven't been ready to make that jump yet (concerns about Mr Smith, E's relationship status). Finally managed to get he and his girlfriend, L (who is hot as hell), up here for the weekend.

Cue fire show at the hot springs. Cue he and I smooching in his car a little. Cue three out of the four of us getting a little fucked up and hitting the neighbor's hot tub. Cue Mr Smith taking advantage of the situation (well, I guess I started it with one of the hot tub jets first) and going to town on me--while E and L kind of hung back (odd, on one hand, as he's both a voyeur/exhibitionist; not, on the other, as he and L have been having trouble for ages). Then me going down on him. Next, fun with snow and sensitive skin in hot tubs . . . and then both of them paying attention to L . . . and then E paying attention to me while Mr Smith paid attention to L.

Cue an armpit fart, which caused a LOT of giggling and loss of mood.

But it was still good. And ridiculously hot. And Mr Smith and I fucked like crazy last night.

Hooray for spring!



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subject: re: It must be spring . . .
in reply to valkyrie in message #5995:
mmm hot tubs. i think theres just a people "clicking" thing going on. some people can't be that open in the first place, some can, and some just need a little chemical persuasion. i think i was way more open when i was younger .. i was in a situation like that once almost to a t, except it was me and a guy friend and his wife. i got some strange vibe from her, and some possible negs from him, and since we were all drinking
i just relaxed and let the whole thing slide, as in nada, just having fun talking. i must say that the feeling of ice or snow and then back into hot tub, esp. while buzzed, is very nice .. but it can also lead to drowning if overdone, or even hyperthermia. be careful with the play there val :)

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subject: re: It must be spring . . .
in reply to spadeinfull in message #5996:
Well, considering we were just grabbing handfuls of snow and using them /in/ the hot tub, no health concerns there. And we had a sober person and the other two-to-three weren't particularly fucked up, either--just enough, I think.



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subject: re: It must be spring . . .
in reply to valkyrie in message #5997:
heh, i guess we ran a little bolder, or stupider, however one wants to look at the situation.
i'm rather proud i didn't act too stupid or make any passes at anyone that night :)
or die, lol.

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subject: why you don't look at pr0n on work computers

In class today, we were going to be watching a video for an example of something. Thus, my professor had his laptop hooked up to the projector, complete with sound. WMP popped up. Whatever was on it was paused, with no preview. My professor hit play.

Porn began to play. Not just any porn, but porn involving golden showers.

I don't think I've ever seen 80 students laugh so hard for so long.

... my professor is something like 65, too....


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subject: re: why you don't look at pr0n on work computers
in reply to ironkitten82 in message #5999:
the other day a commercial for "male enhancement" involving a pump and some fairly explicit words came on in the break room at lunch. i had to call in the store manager to point it out and laugh.
only half the people even noticed, due to talking amongst themselves .. me having decent hearing, said "what the fuck"? out loud. this was on the same day, or the day after ashton kutcher changed wife demi moores tv to porn a couple of times, and twittered about pranking her on her birthday. he did it remotely too, which is kind of awesome for a prank.

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